Communication Breakdown: I Said This; You Heard That?

“You hurt me!” Whitley exclaimed.  “What did I do?” her friend asked.  As Whitley begins her lengthy explanation of their previous conversation and how it hurt her, her friend nods affirmingly. Internally, however, she grows more puzzled, confused, and secretly frustrated.  Inwardly, she … Continue reading

Is There Emotional Healing Apart From Cinderella and Prince Charming?  

Soul mate love is perfect, right? Little girls love to fantasize about living happily ever after.  You know the story: the not-so-popular girl gets the golden slipper and the dashing Prince Charming.  While these dreams are fun make-believe in childhood, carrying this … Continue reading

Why Saying No More Often Will Improve Your Life

Have you ever considered that No is a complete sentence?  You don’t have to explain or justify yourself when you say no!  Don’t believe it?  Then you might be someone who fills your life with yeses, commas, and explanations.  You may rarely end your response … Continue reading